Jun 30

Birthday Wishes

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It’s the first time I havent spent the day with my fella on his birthday.. It feels very strange. He wont open his cards or gifts until he gets back Friday, But i hope today manages to bring him some smiles even though he has to work..  Happy Birthday Steve!

He said hes holding the picture of what we did last year in his head today so hopefully will be able to add to that when he gets home.

We are going out Saturday to see our friends which we are both really looking forward to and Sunday im taking him out for a meal. Hes been waiting for a restuarant to open here, which has its grand opening this weekend..So its perfect timing ..

Today i need to walk miles to go pick up some sausages my grandad got the kids so im gonna grab a shower before i start, Ive already done the packing and emails so am ahead of myself this morning, it was too hot to sleep anyway so i got up at stupid 0 clock as usual.

Ive got the size converter working in my old site  now so am trying to figure this out later and see if i can mend it in the new site, im halfway through taking it out of the templates and prefer them with it in.. Its because the new site automatically caches that it doesnt work in there so i need to sort one out that will work with my new system.. its so boring doing the same thing over and over, I do a bit on one site then move onto the next, but its getting done slowly. Im getting my eldest working with me tonight and getting him on the directory.. I can see now exactly why my fella works nights! theres always a list that never gets finished and  just grows..and this type of work you cannot do when you have kids buzzing around you..

The Royal Norfolk Show is starting today which so many of my friends from the stables are competing in, so ill be catching up on what the day has held in store for them throughout the equestrian events and posting it.. I hope next year me and Mandy will have our own horse to share so we can join them there.. Id love that.. My goal is to get up to her level so we can buy a horse between us that is suitable for us to share..I loved the dressage competition last year and intend on doing a lot more of that as well as jumping…

My legs this morning are a nice shade of black and blue from riding, I dont think its riding Kenny that did this its more like saturdays awakening on the bigger horse, im walking like John Wayne today with hips that ache on top from belly dancing.. 

Perhaps that walk is a positive move this morning..lol

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Working is a major influence on who we are as people and who we will become in life. Understanding the importance of the job we do is the first step towards appreciating the gift of work and learning how to use it to our advantage. Rather than seeing our work as just being something that we begrudgingly do each week day from 9 to 5, we have to see it as something more meaningful.

Work Creates Discipline
The commitment involved in getting up and going to work each day to devote many hours to a particular job is a major accomplishment. Regardless of the type of work one does, the simple fact that a person can make it to the workplace day after day is impressive.

Work is Giving
By giving your time and commitment to your work you are contributing to society in many ways. You may be working to keep food on the table for your family, providing valuable products or services to society, or creating jobs for others if you're the boss. Work Encourages Growth
The skills we learn at wor
k can involve everything from spiritual growth through to improved physical health. The contacts we have with customers or coworkers encourages social interaction, which is a great way to learn how to deal with people from a variety of backgrounds. Many skills from particular industries can also be of benefit in our home life.

Work Improves Life
For the person that has little motivation or the ambition to do better in life, their conditions are improved by working because they can provide for their family and perhaps take the occasional holiday. But for those seeking more out of life, with big hopes and dreams, work is the key to change. It may start with a job that merely feeds and clothes you, which later leads to creating the change necessary to rise above your current circumstances. That could mean attaining further education while you are still working to get a better job, creating a product that could improve the life of others, or getting the savings needed to start your own business.

We can let work use us and become just another number clocking on and and off each day, or we can use work to create the person we wish to become in life. By choosing to learn from the work we have to do, we can eventually do the work we really want to do. If we collect chicken eggs or are the mayor of a city we are learning everyday, contributing to society, and improving the life of those around us.



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Life Tip 1) First, life is worthwhile if you LEARN. What you don't know WILL hurt you. You have to have learning to exist, let alone succeed. Life is worthwhile if you learn from your own experiences, negative and positive. We learn to do it right by first sometimes doing it wrong. We call that a positive negative. We also learn from other people's experiences, both positive and negative. I've always said it is too bad failures don't give seminars. We don't want to pay them so they don't tour around giving seminars. But the information would be very valuable – how someone who had it all, messed it up. Learning from other people's experiences and mistakes.

We learn by what we see - pay attention. By what we hear – be a good listener. Now I do suggest being a selective listener, don't just let anybody dump into your mental factory. We learn from what we read. Learn from every source. Learn from lectures, learn from songs, learn from sermons, learn from conversations with people who care. Keep learning.

Life Tip 2) Life is worthwhile if you TRY. You can't just learn; you now have to try something to see if you can do it. Try to make a difference, try to make some progress, try to learn a new skill, try to learn a new sport. Life is worthwhile if you try. It doesn't mean you can do everything but there are a lot of things you can do, if you just try. Try your best. Give it every effort. Why not go all out?

Life Tip 3) Life is worthwhile if you STAY. You have to stay from spring until harvest. If you have signed up for the day or for the game or for the project - see it through. Sometimes calamity comes and then it is worth wrapping it up. And that's the end, but just don't end in the middle. Maybe on the next project you pass, but on this one, if you signed up, see it through.

Life Tip 4) Life is worthwhile if you CARE. If you care at all you will get some results, if you care enough you can get incredible results. Care enough to make a difference. Care enough to turn somebody around. Care enough to start a new enterprise. Care enough to change it all. Care enough to be the highest producer. Care enough to set some records. Care enough to win.

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Well don’t we just have it all at our fingertips these days? Mobile telephony, satellite monitoring, wireless go anywhere internet connection, SMS and ‘always on’ email straight to our palm devices.

As soloists, there’s no excuse for failing to stay in touch with our work (and our clients) regardless of where we are or when. The marketers of course, would have us believe this is all good.

I disagree. Sure, some of it can be good and at times it is very convenient, but the worrying trend is that always available may become the workplace norm.

A quick glance at how these new services are being marketed and you’ll see imagery depicting young, happy executives tapping away at the keyboard while at the beach or in the garden. In the distance we see friends and family supposedly playing and communing happily.

Everyone is doing what they love. How nice.

Let’s now consider the reverse scenario: Friends and family playing happily in the office while you work. Do you reckon you’ll get much done? Nope. Me neither. You’ll be distracted and certainly won’t be concentrating on your work.

Relaxing with friends and family isn’t a totally passive past time. You need to participate if you are to give and receive. It’s called ‘being present’. If you’re not joining in, all you’re really doing is moving the office to a new location…and one where nothing terribly meaningful is achieved.

Let’s look at other implications of the always available trap.

Remember the good old days when you took a day or two off and were pleasantly surprised when everything ran smoothly in your absence? The times when your clients and associates rose to the challenge of management and decision-making and showed themselves much more capable than you had given credit?

Why would anyone risk making a decision about anything now, when you’re just a moment away?

On the other hand, if you want to make every micro decision (er, control freak!) then carry on, you’re doing just fine.

While some soloists may quite rightly say that being always available and in-touch is wonderful for their business, a survey on our site suggested over 72% of you would be more than happy if a surprise law banned mobile phones. Chances are partners and friends are sure to agree!

The answer to this is not that complex. Being available can most certainly be good, but we have to establish boundaries with our colleagues and clients.

If you don’t stay in control of your involvement in your business, you’ll forever be its prisoner.

That doesn’t sound like a good recipe for loving your work does it?

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One Response to “Birthday Wishes”

  1. Lauren XXX Says:
    July 5th, 2010 at 12:24 pm

    happy birthday dad i miss you every week and cant wait til you get back I hope you had a wonderful birthday love you so much
    lauren
    xxxx

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